Five Things A Bridesmaid Should Never Say

Brides can get somewhat stressed during the wedding planning process. When it all gets too much its a bridesmaid's job to offer a shoulder to cry on, a cup of tea and a few kind words. However it's all too easy to inadvertently say the wrong thing and make everything a whole lot worse. We have put together our top 5 tips with the worst things you can say to a bride. However we bet there are a whole load more. 

'It Was About Time He Proposed'

One of your best friends has become engaged and is getting married (HOW exciting!). Surely you can think of a better way to offer your congratulations than pointing out that groom was a bit slow off the mark to get down on one knee. Show the bride how excited and happy you are, both for her wedding and to be a bridesmaid. This should do nicely: 

'Congratulations, I am so happy for you both. I can't wait for the wedding day! You will make such a beautiful bride. Can we start planning now?' 

'How Much Weight Do You Want To Lose?'

Sure, the bride may want to lose a couple of pounds before the wedding. But never assume this. Lots of people are perfectly happy in their own skin and don't want or need to lose any weight. Asking them how much weight they plan to lose might spiral them into weight loss insecurities. Not cool.

Just steer clear of weight questions. Let the bride bring it up in her own way. If she feels like she needs to lose weight, provide helpful and kind comments such as:

 'Well you know you will look beautiful whether you lose weight or not. If you want we could start running together'

'I Am Not Wearing That Dress'

Refusing to wear a bridesmaid dress is just so unhelpful. Bridesmaids have one job, to help the bride through her wedding day. Lots of bridesmaid dresses are lovely, some are totally hideous. Whether you like the dress or not, it is the bride's choice.

She may give you free reign to choose the dress you want but never presume this is the case. She may have a very clear vision for the way she wants her bridesmaids to look and you should try to respect that.

If you really feel insecure or uncomfortable in the dress, talk to your bride to come up with a solution. Perhaps slightly altered sleeves or a longer version. But if it's just the style or colour that you're not keen on, try to plaster a grin on your face, get it on and rock the look. 

'What's Your Wedding Budget?'

Hey Nosey Parker! :) Its the question we are all dying to know! Resist the urge because the bride will probably feel pretty uncomfortable divulging her finances to you. If she doesn't mind you knowing, then she will tell you all about it as part of the wedding planning process. 

 'What's The Plan For The Wedding Day Again?'

When the bride sends an email or calls you to tell you the plans fo her wedding day, please pay attention. Grab a pen and write down where you are meant to be, what you should be doing and at what time. Nothing is more annoying for a bride than explaining the wedding day plans over and over again. It also appears like the bridesmaids don't care, which probably isn't true (we all have busy lives!) but it can come across badly all the same. So pay attention and take note. 

We hope these five tips have you helped you steer your way through the world of bridesmaid etiquette. If you have anymore tips you would like to add, leave a comment below.

So What Should You Do As A Bridemaid???

Arrange The Brides Hen Do!!  

And Why don't you let Bijoux Hen Parties do that for you.  Whether you are looking for a Dance Class or a Vintage Afternoon Tea Party or even a Makeover & Photo shoot - Bijoux Hen Parties will arrange it for you.  All at competitive prices and very little worry from you, so you can help the beautiful bride to be arrange the more difficult parts of her big day!!

So don't delay pick up the phone today 01509 357751 to book your fantastic Hen Party

The Country rolled back the time to the 1920's

Wow, What a weekend we had at Bijoux this weekend.  We were rolled back in time to the time of the Great Gatsby and we had Charleston Dance Parties left right and centre.

Here is a sneak peak at how they went..........

These Birmingham beautiful ladies had a brilliant time learning "Happy Feet" & "Speak Easy" from our amazing Teacher Simona.  And WOW don't they all look fantastic.


Here is some lovely feedback from the wonderful hens in Bath:

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5 - Excellent - Kirsty was fantastic, she ensured everyone was included, brought tonnes of energy, fun & enjoyment to our day. We all absolutely loved it!
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5 - Excellent - A really fantastic party, will be using you again for sure! Thank you!
Would you recommend Bijoux Hen Parties?
Yes

Thanks for the lovely feedback...and I will look forward to organizing your next event.

And below is the fantastic ladies from Nottingham:

Look at those beautiful smiles complimenting the snazzy flapper dresses and feather head bands.  So our teacher Lydia showed these Nottingham ladies how to strut to Paolo Nutini's Energetic Song "Pencil Skirt"

So if you are looking to have as much fun as all these beautiful ladies and roll back the time to the 1920's and have a Charleston Themed Hen Party, then please feel free to call 01509 357751 or drop me an Email.

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15 recipes for Low Calorie Cocktails

Another interesting read in the Daily Mail today. Low calorie cocktails.  What Bride to be isn't looking to keep the calories at a minimum ready for her big day to fit into her gorgeous dress.  So I thought I would share these lovely recipes.

HOW TO MAKE LOW-CALORIE SUMMER COCKTAILS  

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Pococello Granita Slushie (right) has 75 calories.  Radish Bloody Mary (right)  has 108 calories

Pococello Granita Slushie, 75 calories per serving

Ingredients: Pococello; lemon juice; water

Method: Combine four parts Pococello, one part lemon juice and five parts water. Pop the mix in ice cube trays, when frozen dispense in a food processor and blitz to slushie.

White Wine-Berry Sangria, 150 calories per serving

Ingredients: Danebury White Wine; one cup lemon-lime soda; half a cup raspberry vodka; half a cup brandy; chopped strawberries and raspberries and blueberries 

Method: Combine the liquids and shake well. Top with the chopped berries

Gin Fizz, 120 calories per serving

Ingredients: 25ml gin;15ml agave;15ml fresh lemon juice; soda water

Method: Combine ingredients in rocks glass filled with ice. Garnish with fresh lemon.

Radish Bloody Mary, 108 calories per serving

Ingredients: 100ml vodka; 50ml sherry; half a tablespoon freshly grated horseradish; 25ml Worcestershire sauce; Tabasco to taste; half a teaspoon celery salt; cracked black pepper to taste; 750ml tomato juice; 500g ice cubes; 100g sliced radishes; one lime cut into wedges; four celery sticks to garnish

Method: Mix together the vodka, sherry, horseradish, Worcestershire sauce, Tabasco, celery salt, black pepper and tomato juice in a large jug. Fill another large jug with the ice, sliced radishes and lime wedges. Pour the liquid over the ice, and serve straight away in chilled glasses with celery sticks in them. 

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The 91-calorie Aperol Spritz

Tropical Iced Tea-ni, 150 calories per serving

Ingredients (serves four): 2 x 330ml The Berry Company's yellow tea and coconut water; 4x 25ml Vodka; half a lemon (to squeeze); 400ml coconut milk; pineapple, sliced; cup of crushed ice

Method: Pour two cartons of yellow tea and coconut water, the coconut milk and the four single measures of vodka (100ml) into a blender and top up with crushed ice. Blend the mixture together until smooth. Pour the blended mixture into glasses and squeeze the juice from half a lemon into the centre of the cocktail. Add a slice of pineapple for garnish and serve

Gin Blush, 61 calories per serving

Ingredients: 50ml gin; 100ml diet tonic; 15ml Teisseire pink grapefruit; two slices lime.

Method: Add the fin, pink grapefruit and tonic to a glass. Mix then top with ice and garnish with lime.

Aperol Spritz, 91 calories per serving

Ingredients: Bottle of chilled Prosecco, bottle of Aperol; 25ml soda, served from a syphon or chilled bottle; ice cubes; slices of orange

Method: Fill the glasses generously with cubed ice. First pour three parts of Prosecco (75ml) over the ice. Then, pour two parts Aperol (50ml) into each glass in a circular movement. Finish with a dash of soda (25ml). Garnish with a slice of orange.

The One Whisky Smash, 88 calories per serving

Ingredients: Half a lime, cut into small wedges; 40g diced cucumber; five sprigs fresh mint, plus more for garnish; 25ml whisky; ice; 50ml cold limeade (lemonade will work if you can't get limeade)

Method: Muddle the mint in a tall glass, then pour the whisky and limeade and mix. Top with diced cucumber, and lime. 

The Chemmy Martini, 133 calories per serving 

Ingredients: 50ml The Lakes Gin; 25ml freshly squeezed grapefruit juice; 12.5ml Martini Extra Dry; teaspoon of sugar syrup

Method: Thoroughly shake all the liquid ingredients in a cocktail shaker. Serve in a chilled martini glass with grapefruit rind to decorate. 

Gimlet, 120 calories per serving

Ingredients: 25ml gin;15ml agave; 15ml fresh lime juice; soda water

Method: Combine ingredients in rocks glass filled with ice. Garnish with fresh lime.

Agave Old Fashioned, 127 calories per serving

Ingredients: 25ml bourbon; orange slice and cherry; 15ml Agave

Method: Muddle orange slice and cherry in the bottom of a rock glass. Add bourbon, Agave Reál and stir. Fill glass half way with ice. Stir to lift ingredients and fill with ice. (Strain into a fresh glass with fresh ice is optional). 

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Altosita (left)  with 139 calories. Twisting my melon (right) has 147 calories

Altosita, 139 calories per serving

Ingredients: 25ml tequila; 10ml lime juice; 10ml lemon juice; 20ml agave nectar; 50ml lychee juice

Method: Add all ingredients to shaker. Shake and strain over cubed ice into a rocks glass. Garnish with mint and a flower 

Twisting my melon, 147 calories per serving

Ingredients: 15ml gin; 15ml Campari; 15ml Martini Rosso; 5ml lemon juice; 50ml watermelon juice; dash of peach bitters

Method: Rim a tall glass with lava salt. Then build over cubed ice Stir.Garnish with mint and a flower. 

Mojito, 119 calories per serving

Ingredients: 25ml rum; four lime wedges; four to five sprigs of mint; 15ml agave; top with soda

Method: Muddle mint and lime in the bottom of a tall glass. Add rum and agave and stir. Fill glass half  way with ice (crushed preferred). Stir to lift ingredients and fill with ice. Top with soda water. Garnish with a lime slice and mint leaves wedge.

Lavender and Berry Shrub, 144 calories per serving 

Ingredients: 25ml Hendricks ; 12.5ml blackberry and raspberry shrub vinegar; 12.5ml lavender syrup; 30ml apple juice

Method: Build over crushed ice in a brandy glass. Swizzle until glass is frosted. Garnish with lavender 

Please enjoy these cocktails responsibly. Drinkaware.co.uk 

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So if you are looking to have a fabulous time at your hen party but don't want to pile on the pounds doing so, have you thought about a Dance hen Party, not only will you be burning those calories you are about to consume on your meal/night out but you will have loads of fun.

So give us at Bijoux Hen  Parties a call 01509 357751 or drop us a quick email to discuss our packages that will help you burn those calories.

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Filthy Fun for these Hens

The Northumberland Gazette had this article in the paper today.  http://www.northumberlandgazette.co.uk/news/local-news/filthy-fun-for-hens-as-party-gets-very-dirty-1-7338444

Defiantly worth a read, as is different idea for a hen party.

But if your looking for something different and less dirty pop over to our website and have a look at our hen party packages suited for all ages across the UK.

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Its all about 1920's style

So I was watching my new obsession last night Vampire Diaries and in Season 2 they have this amazing flash back scene back to the 1920s scene to show that Stefan knew Klaus all along.  And in the present day they had a decades dance in the theme of 1920s.  And OMG didn't everyone look fantastic.

So back in time in Glorias bar everyone was taking part to the fast paced Charleston Dance which looks so much fun, makes me want to organise a dance class for myself.  In fact, I think everyone must have been watching this or the Great Gatsby as all our parties this weekend are Charleston dance hen parties.

Not only did the dance look fantastic, so did everyone else.  The Hair, The Makeup was all so glamorous.

So why don't you pop on your flapper dresses and those feather head bands and let Bijoux Hen Parties organise a  Charleston Dance for your birthday/hen party/corporate event.  Not only can we teach you the fantastic dance but we can make you look fabulous with our Powder & Pincurl Makeover Packages.

So sit back relax, give us a call 01509 357751 and let us plan your perfect 1920's event for you all for reasonable competitive prices.


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Don't Put Baby in The Corner!!

So last night on my standard boring Friday night, I made it a better evening.  Got the popcorn out and sat down and watched my all time favourite film for the 10000000000 time - Dirty Dancing!!

So if you lovely ladies are like me and would love to learn the moves to dance with your very own Partick Swayze, then why don't you have your very own Dirty Dancing Dance Class for part of your Hen Party celebrations.

What better way to surprise your hubby to be, with a "Dirty Dance" on your wedding night.  Not only will the lucky man be gobsmacked so will all the guests with you strutting your beautiful stuff to the moves you learnt from one of our approved Dance Teachers.

So Please don't delay and give me a call on 01509 357751 or drop me an email to discuss booking your hen party with Bijoux Hen parties.

And if you don't have your wedding coming up and you want to do it for a birthday or pursuade your boss to do a corporate event, we can cater to all needs.

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93.75% of all Bijoux clients would recommend us!

What a fantastic result that is!!!  Popped along today to have a look at our customer feedback survey to see what the latest ladies thought of their hen parties over the last few months and got that fab result.  

Look at how much fun Vanessa from Birmingham had at their Charleston Dance Party. 

And if a picture didn't send a thousand words, here is some feedback from our clients:

Laura from London - Hula Hoop March 2015

Brilliant to be at such an iconic venue, it also has a great little restaurant next to it. Thank you - you put my mind at ease and the whole process from initial enquiry to arrangement on the day was absolutely superb!!

Rebecca from Bristol - Charleston March 2015

The manager of the club was very helpful and was able to serve us drinks from the bar whilst we were there, which was great! Kirsty was fantastic! She got us all involved and made us all feel comfortable. By the end of the lesson we were all thrilled that we had learnt a dance from scratch! From the first email I sent, you were always fantastic at getting back to me promptly and finding a venue that suited our location and timings. Thank you very much!

Nicola from Bath - Powder & Pincurls Makeover April 2015

We had three stylist and they were all fabulous. Really made us all feel a million dollars, All our party had a wonderful time and all our hair and makeup looked amazing. Really set us up for our 1940s themed night out.

So why don't you sit back and let Bijoux Hen Parties arrange your hen party while you sit back and relax and get ready for your big day.

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